I'de have to go with palooka on this one, my girlfirend did all the work, she was the one thtat came to me, apprently she had some kinda crush on me for months and it took awhile for her to say anything :P (Asian girls are crazy, I recomend everyone dates atleast one.)
Anywhoo don't worry about it, im goin to college next year aswell, go to a few partys get yer drink on and see what happens... don't you go to any house partys? Thows are great places to meet girls. or cross the border into my homeland where the drinking age is 19 and go to a bar or somethin.
thats what I would try if you're that worried about it.